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Monday, March 7, 2016

How To Stop Thinking About You (Forget the Girl You Love)

Was trying to find motivational videos to get you out of your mind and I actually liked this video. Specially one thing that he said striked me .. Why do i feel sad when i think about you?  Because i believe that if you were there with me now.. I would have been much more happier..

Its true actually. .. When i think more about it.. I really feel indirectly that i am not happy now because you are not with me and i feel i would have been if you were with me.. Do you think it would be true? Frankly i dont know what you will be thinking now.. because you have changed a lot.. or perhaps i never knew you .. 

But I really believe that i would have been more happier and more perfect if you were there with me.. Actually in the video that guy asks me to think different. to try to think myself that it would not be true.. that anything could have happened.. that you would have become different person after marriage. maybe. that our life would never have been a happy affair..

But who knows.. we didnt really try it did we?

Now how do i make my mind believe that you were the worst thing that could have happened to me in my life? Thats the question that remains..

I need to make an effort though.. One thing he said in the video is pitch perfect.. .. I dont miss you when i am totally involved in some work,, I have really felt it to be true for a longtime now..

So Maybe.. I should try his technique too.. Whats wrong in trying.. here I go then.. telling myself repeatedly that I might not have been happier even if you were here with me now..




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